Written by Melvin Bosso…
Section 1 – Setting and dilemma
Late afternoon light draped Monogaga Beach (South West Ivory Coast) in gold, the line of coconut trees casting long, thin shadows across the sand as the tide breathed in and out with slow, deliberate patience. Nanan Martin sat in a low wooden chair he’d dragged almost to the water’s edge, boots off, toes buried in the warm grit, uniform long retired but posture still unmistakably military. His niece, Miss Aykway, sat cross-legged beside him on a woven mat, absently tracing circles in the sand as she watched a few boys push a painted canoe further up the shore, their laughter carrying over the hush of the small waves. “Uncle,” she began, “I keep thinking my career will finally ‘start’ when I land the right title, the right promotion. Manager, director, something that sounds like it belongs on a glass door.” Martin chuckled, eyes on the horizon, where the clear water turned from turquoise to deep blue. “Let me tell you something, Aykway. A professional life doesn’t truly begin with a job offer, a title, or a promotion.” She looked over, surprised by the firmness in his tone. Nanan Martin watched a line of waves collapse gently onto the sand, then said, almost as if to himself, “Not all leadership styles are equal.” Miss Aykway glanced over. “So how do I know which kind of leader I’m meant to be?” He leaned forward, elbows on his knees. “If you are ever in a position to lead, know that the first person you will have to lead is yourself, yet leadership is not about you,” he said, letting the words hang between them like another tide rolling in. She frowned. “That sounds like a contradiction.” “It’s a paradox,” he replied. “Your true beginning as a leader shows up the day you align your ‘why,’ master yourself enough to live by it, and still choose to use that power in service of others, not your own ego.”
Section 2 – Defining the true beginning
“It begins,” he continued, “the day your work connects with purpose, impact, and continuity, when the ‘what’ of your work finally aligns with a compelling ‘why.’” He drew a line in the sand with his heel. “This line here, that’s what most people call the beginning: first job, first paycheck, first business card.” He drew a second line closer to the water, just where the foam could reach. “But this one? This is your true beginning. That moment when you stop just doing tasks and start doing something that makes sense to who you are and who you’re trying to become.” Aykway watched a small wave creep forward, erase the second line, then retreat. “And if I don’t know that moment yet?” “You don’t wait for it like some grand ceremony,” he said. “You notice it. You choose it. What you define as that true beginning becomes a hidden predictor of the kind of leader you’re going to grow into.” She frowned thoughtfully. “How so?” “The First Beginning,” he said, as if giving a lecture to young officers again, “is when you start with passion.” He leaned back, folding his arms. “Most people tell their careers as timelines: this role, then that promotion, then another company. But the deeper inflection point is the moment you discover work that actually aligns with your passions, strengths, and values.” He pointed at the fishermen in the distance, mending their nets beside brightly painted canoes. “You see them? Their day doesn’t start when someone blows a whistle. It starts when they decide the sea matters enough to wake up before sunrise and do this again and again.” “When someone defines their true professional beginning as the moment they start chasing something they care deeply about,” he went on, “they tend to grow into leaders who lead with conviction and authenticity.” “What does that look like?” she asked. “It looks like framing decisions through the lens of purpose rather than convenience,” he replied. “When the work is an expression of identity, not just a means to an end, you don’t fold at the first sign of complexity. You persist because walking away would feel like walking away from yourself.”
Section 3 – Passion versus contribution
The breeze shifted, carrying the faint smell of woodsmoke and grilled fish from a small shack further up the beach, where a family prepared the evening meal. “That early definition of beginning,” Martin said, “shapes leadership style in ways people often don’t see until much later. Leaders whose origin story centers on passion and meaning are more inclined to articulate a clear sense of direction.” He tapped his chest. “They can communicate the ‘why’ with clarity, not just the ‘what’ on a slide.” “And because they’re anchored in an internal compass rather than chasing external validation, they tend to be more resilient and more coherent under pressure.” He smiled. “When shells are landing and decisions are messy, that inner compass matters more than the rank on your shoulder.” Aykway hugged her knees. “So if my beginning is about passion, I’ll lead with purpose. But what if my story doesn’t start there? What if I never had that big ‘this is my passion’ moment?” Martin nodded. “That’s the second pattern. Beginning as contribution.” He paused, letting a long wave roll in and break. The water reached her toes now, cool against the warm sand. “Some professionals,” he said, “define their true beginning not at the moment they discovered personal passion, but at the moment they first created tangible value for others.” He pointed at a woman down the beach handing a plastic bag of fresh fish to a man who had just arrived by motorbike. “For people like her, professional life starts when their work begins to matter to clients, teams, or communities.” “So, the question becomes,” he added, “not ‘What do I love?’ but ‘When did my work first make a real difference to someone else?’” Aykway stared at the woman counting change into the man’s palm, the easy familiarity of the exchange, the quiet efficiency. “And if that’s your origin?” “Then you predispose yourself to become a service-oriented leader,” Martin replied. “You see your role as creating value, not collecting status. You measure your progress in the outcomes you enable for others, not just your own milestones.” He reached down, grabbed a bit of wet sand, and let it fall slowly between his fingers. “There are leaders whose story begins with passion: ‘I fell in love with this field, and I never looked back.’ And there are leaders whose story begins with contribution: ‘The day I saw that what I did mattered to someone else, I knew I’d found my work.’ Both paths can produce strong leaders but the flavor of their leadership will be different.”
Section 4 – Integrating, choosing, and redefining
A group of children ran past them, shrieking with delight as they chased the thin edge of the tide, the sky beginning to blush with the first hints of sunset over the secluded bay. “So which one am I?” she asked quietly. Martin turned to look at her fully for the first time in the conversation. “That’s your work tonight,” he said. “You don’t need a job title to answer it. You need memory, honesty, and maybe a bit of courage.” He shifted in his chair. “Think back. When did your work first feel like more than a task? Was it when you were doing something that lit you up inside, or when you realized someone else could stand a little taller because of something you did?” She thought of a university project she’d led that tackled a messy community issue, of the long evenings, the arguments, the eventual small but real change for local families. She thought of the first time a younger colleague had told her, “I stayed because you told me I could figure this out.” “Maybe,” she said slowly, “my beginning is both.” He smiled, lines deepening around his eyes. “Then you’re lucky. You’ve got the seed of conviction and the seed of service. Over time, how you define that true beginning will silently guide how you choose, how you respond under pressure, how you lead.” The sun dipped lower, turning the clear water into molten copper, the coconut trees standing like quiet sentinels along one of the most beautiful and still-preserved stretches of coast in Côte d’Ivoire. “Uncle,” she asked, voice softer now, “when did your professional life truly begin?” He looked out over the bay for a long moment before answering. “The army didn’t begin my professional life,” he said. “It just gave me a uniform. My true beginning was the day I realized my decisions would shape whether the people under my command went home alive, and whether they grew under my watch or shrank.” He nodded to himself. “That’s when the ‘what’ of my work finally aligned with my ‘why’: to protect and to build people, not just to follow orders.” A long, quiet silence settled between them, broken only by the rhythmic hush of the waves and the distant murmur of villagers finishing their day. “So,” he said at last, pushing himself up from the chair, joints protesting. “Tomorrow, when you open your laptop, don’t just ask, ‘What am I doing today?’ Ask, ‘Where did my true beginning start, and what kind of leader is it quietly pushing me to become?’” She stood beside him, brushing sand off her legs. “And if I don’t like the answer?” He smiled, turning toward the narrow track that led back through the village. “Then you redraw your beginning, Aykway. Not by rewriting your past, but by choosing, from today, a ‘why’ you’re willing to live withand lead from.” Behind them, Monogaga’s waves kept rolling in, erasing footprints and lines in the sand, leaving the beach ready for whatever stories tomorrow’s tide would bring.
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• A career truly begins when everyday work aligns with a personal why, not accumulated titles or promotions.
• Leaders grow from passionate, meaningful work that resonates with values, not only from hierarchy, authority, or external recognition.
• Defining your origin in contribution cultivates servant leadership, prioritizing people, outcomes, and impact over ego and positional status.
• You can redraw your true beginning anytime by choosing a purpose you will deliberately live, work, and lead from.
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